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What makes you different?

14.06.2025 15:11

What makes you different?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

How many of you have had your parental rights taken away because of lies and no truth whatsoever, and did you prove the lies that were told about you to be false either through drug testing or another way, but still had your rights taken?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Why am I more attracted to black men?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

What do you think of the Black history lessons in the PBS documentary about jazz pianist-singer Hazel Scott?

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

How do you view men and women who cheat?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

Why do women consider 80% of men as unattractive?

Can you make it?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Is the Trump-Zelenskyy meeting a preview of what the US is going to do to Taiwan?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Will Canadians still buy American products?

Agree?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

What measures do celebrities take to protect their images from being used for commercial purposes without permission? How much does this typically cost them?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

What makes you YOU.

Why do I feel worthless most of the time?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

So, keep on experimenting.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

What advice would you give to a father of a teenage daughter on how to protect her from boys, dating, and social media? How should fathers discuss these topics with their daughters?

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Trump's "They're Eating Cats and Dogs" quote has become a meme. Would this help him get elected? I hope you can be impartial when responding to this question. Thank you

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Why is it rare for someone to despise both the Democrats and Republicans?

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Doctors say this lifestyle choice is the biggest contributor to cognitive decline and dementia - Earth.com

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Does a narcissist ever get their comeuppance/karma for the vile things they've done? Such as cheating, smear campaign, etc.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

At what point did you realize it was the right time to leave your job?

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

What if he’d come outside?

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

So, what actually makes us all different?